1. You can fall in love with someone that doesn't love you back. It is not your fault, or theirs.
2. You can leave. Even if you don't want to. 
3. You can cry. You are allowed to have feelings.
4. You are not an idiot for missing someone who doesn't want you. You cannot control what you feel.
5. What you want isn't always what's best for you.
6.  Focus on what's ahead in your future, it's not the end of your world.
7. When it feels like you are never going to move on, remember : You are doing something now, you didn't stop living your life because it ended. You went to work, met your friends, laughed and cried. Just keep doing things until you can think of him or her and not feel like a gigantic piece of horseshit.
8. If you keep thinking you are not good enough. Then you won't be good enough. Get off your fucking ass and do something about it.
9. They won't come back. They made their decision. Forcing them will result in nothing. Nothing that you want, anyway.
10. If you don't regret, you won't learn.
11. Be civil. You are not a child.
12. YOU CAN BE HAPPY. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. 
13. Try your best to get out of this country. This society kills dreams and morals.
14. Do what you want as long as you don't hurt other people. Unless they hurt you, then fuck them up.
15. Wallow in sadness for however long you need to. Just remember that you could be doing more important things.
16. You can be loved. Your friends love you, remember this, if anything.

Labels: Reminders